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Matty one would almost have to assume that in order for them to become married and monogomus that they would be very happy.
I would think there would have to be a lot on the table for their partner for that to happen...
And maybe in some cases the parter attempts to meet their needs??....
 
An old buddy of mine called yesterday - he was screaming on the phone. Turns out, he just won the Governor General's award in his field, which is a pretty big fokken deal, like one-third of a Nobel prize or something. Basically, he's set for life thanks to that award. I was and still am absolutely floored by the news and I'm thrilled for him, (in part because I wrote & translated his application papers, in Canadian English to boot.)

I remember a time in my life where I would've been extremely jealous of someone's hugh accomplishments, especially someone my age. It would make me actually angry and I'd make a vague 5-year plan in my head to accomplish something similarly hugh. And I'd usually calm down and forget all about that plan an hour later.

My random thought is this: I don't know when I stopped caring, but I'm perfectly okay with being a mediocre human being. I rock.
 
No, I'm not miserable..... We all choose to miss out on things at times. Monogamy is a day by day decision, even within long term comittments. There is always hope in the back of your head that things will Change and you'll have some international swapping with other GL married couples
 
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Matty one would almost have to assume that in order for them to become married and monogomus that they would be very happy.
I would think there would have to be a lot on the table for their partner for that to happen...
And maybe in some cases the parter attempts to meet their needs??....
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Good points. I guess I'm thinking of a single person who wants a family and forces themself into a classic heterosexual marriage. Are the ignoring/sacrificing half their sexual urges?

Now that I think of it, porn probably compensates for any need that is unmet in the offline realm?
 
Matty
An old buddy of mine called yesterday - he was screaming on the phone. Turns out, he just won the Governor General's award in his field, which is a pretty big fokken deal, like one-third of a Nobel prize or something. Basically, he's set for life thanks to that award. I was and still am absolutely floored by the news and I'm thrilled for him, (in part because I wrote & translated his application papers, in Canadian English to boot.)

I remember a time in my life where I would've been extremely jealous of someone's hugh accomplishments, especially someone my age. It would make me actually angry and I'd make a vague 5-year plan in my head to accomplish something similarly hugh. And I'd usually calm down and forget all about that plan an hour later.

My random thought is this: I don't know when I stopped caring, but I'm perfectly okay with being a mediocre human being. I rock.
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Great post mattay.
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Matty
Good points. I guess I'm thinking of a single person who wants a family and forces themself into a classic heterosexual marriage. Are the ignoring/sacrificing half their sexual urges?

Now that I think of it, porn probably compensates for any need that is unmet in the offline realm?
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I think that having a family fulfills you so much and keeps ypu so busy that one may not always have time to notice what might be missing.

Also...can simply watching porn really compinsate for the physical act of being with someone that you can't?
 
Matty
An old buddy of mine called yesterday - he was screaming on the phone. Turns out, he just won the Governor General's award in his field, which is a pretty big fokken deal, like one-third of a Nobel prize or something. Basically, he's set for life thanks to that award. I was and still am absolutely floored by the news and I'm thrilled for him, (in part because I wrote & translated his application papers, in Canadian English to boot.)

I remember a time in my life where I would've been extremely jealous of someone's hugh accomplishments, especially someone my age. It would make me actually angry and I'd make a vague 5-year plan in my head to accomplish something similarly hugh. And I'd usually calm down and forget all about that plan an hour later.

My random thought is this: I don't know when I stopped caring, but I'm perfectly okay with being a mediocre human being. I rock.
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I like being mediocre. You pass under the radar if you live your life like that. You rock baby!!!!
 
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I like being mediocre. You pass under the radar if you live your life like that. You rock baby!!!!
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I wake up every morning with the same unwavering commitment - to give it my sincere 50%. And I'd say that, on average, I live up to that self-imposed standard about once a week.

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camilion15728
It may tame the craving...but I wonder if it can really feed the craving though...

Also...thanks for that mental pic...sheeeesh
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My original post was triggered by a story I heard. This guy cheated on his GF with a dude. Then he dumped said GF, only to meet a new girl a couple months later. He MARRIED THAT NEW GIRL TWO WEEKS LATER. Mere weeks after doing the ghey secks.

Is this guy fokked in the head or is that somewhat common for bi's?

We need that guy posting here.
 
A lot of people need/want that but not me. I'll tell you what I want.

I want to meet a girl through an online dating site and exchange ~5 emails - hers all two lines max - then meet in a crowded Starbucks with people listening in on our conversation - not even pretending they're not - and the occasional elbow jabbing my head as people try to crowd by - and have her speak too quietly to really be heard so I keep saying "pardon" every 3 seconds until it becomes too clunky to keep saying, "Pardon," so I just give up and try to make do, hearing what I can - and then, after about an hour of that we decide to take off - and then the next day I email her saying I enjoyed her charming company and would like to get to know her better - because, despite the awkwardness of the meeting, she is somewhat attractive and there are a few appealing things about her - but she, with no possible way of realizing my depth and subtlety of character, declines saying she doesn't feel any chemistry.

That's all I want. Is that too much to ask?
 
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