The last 2 months, I have been hanging out with a girl. 34, two children and very nice. Big problem is our schedules (and her hesitancy to me meeting her kids) make it impossible for us to see each other often. I say we see each other 14 hours a week (8 of those sleeping).
Now with work being as busy as it is, I'm not in any desperate need for companionship. That said, most of my late nights after work I have been having drinks with Danielle. She was the brunette I wanted to talk to but had a bf. I hired her a month ago, and we have been talking nightly.
Thing is she has a bf still. He screwed up big time this weekend, and the way it sounds, their relationship is in its last legs.
My question. Is it scummy that I am considering biding my time (but not getting more serious) with Jen and waiting to see what Danielle's status becomes?
Danielle doesn't have children, is 24 and dates only guys in her forties. She's not a gold digger and is very cute. She told me last night if she was single she would totally give me a shot.
She could be the one. True story.