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Valorem's Heart Healing Project

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There is a notion called bread crumbs...She had been a somewhat steady lady in terms of emotions...in the last three weeks we went from her talking about getting married..taking a trip..spending another weekend together..to slamming on the breaks...

I asked for a reason why and get the type of answer that I should know why..I dont see why..if the fault is with me its fine...if not its fine...I just want better than someone who is consistently changing her mind...

Strong relationship?

We lived together for five years..Now until recently I had no problems considering her the better person..I have flaws...maybe it just got to the point where all she saw were the flaws and it eroded the love...

I consider when I moved out as I were the one mostly to blame..no issues of infidelity, boozing, hitting, or stuff like that. But these days you have to wear a lot of hats and my wardrobe was not that diversified...

Now the talk of getting back together..working on us..marriage...sex..trips..and all of that I view on her as being bored or not finding what she thought was out there...When the two steps forward went three back is the point where I just decided to go no contact as I am not going to be exposed to it. If I find someone great..if not then I can do with a lot of just me time after I get over this

and I will get over this!!
 
Aight aight, I thought you were college-aged, I read that completely wrong.

Fuck that flaky bitch.

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Tron
That's what I thought, too.


Valorem, eat like you have a photo shoot for Men's Health coming up, go to the gym 6 times a week, get a fresh haircut, by some new clothes and go on Tinder.


You're welcome.
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Pricing gym memberships to vent anger...

Clothes...maybe a second hand store to get some stuff out of my usual tastes...

Try different things instead of doing things differently..

Thank you all...

Going to apply for my Man card again...
 
Yes, I was thinking younger also ..... but lots of time together happy and who knows if she is MrsRight or not for sure? Hopefully Val can figure it out and I like the stay away approach right now but what do I know!

Every woman out there is semi-flaky! I have more flaws than you pal! And I hear about them more than I like but I use my go to in bringing MrsM back down to earth bout all the so called wonderful men out there!

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RogueJuror
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Thanks. I will read up on it later.

I very much appreciate all the responses.

Getting through Friday Night was big...I can now see a future without her in which I am complete whether it be alone or with another. A shame that it had to happen but you can not control things but only how you react to them

Talk to you all later today
 
Yeah man what used to be "date nights" are always the worst during a break up Val, bacon has been guilty of not being able to handle them, going on benders and sending crazy drunk texts during such times :).

You're a better man than I duder, keep us posted.
 
I was ready to go to war...

I wanted to count the days and set far reaching goals...

Instead Welcome to the Days of Meh
  • I have done one spiteful thing (very little) that got a giggle out of me towards her
  • When you have had enough pain, you will stop resisting.

I have set personal goals for the next few months and augmented my routine to keep me busy. Actually, I feel a bit sorry for her and beyond that little else.

THe void will be filled...I feel good...
 
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