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Valorem's Heart Healing Project

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Easy not contacting her. I checked the email twice so that is not good...

Getting down to work and will have picks later today...
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You'll probably find that while it may be easy to not contact her it will become more and more difficult to not stalk her.

If you are going to stalk her, do it right. Don't be a sloppy stalker or you'll get caught.

:boxcleanersdaddy:
 
Keep fighting the good fight. It WILL get easier...but it may get more difficult before it gets easier. It's easy at first when you have that early resolve, but after a few days of not talking it might get tougher. Also it will be especially difficult if she attempts to contact you.

How long were you together?
 
Update :

I am leaning this communication more of an angle shoot than informational request.

Day Two and all is good...Oddly 4PM is the time the clock resets in this.

Anyways...Yesterday towards 5PM she emails me and indicates that a W2 came for me in the mail..Do I need it...nothing else...

So I thought this in my mind



Let them eat static...


so she knows that I filed my taxes a while ago so that I would not need this...probably a ploy to see how I would react. She does not know she is under a No Contact sentence.
 
I didn't watch the video, but I assume you are not going to respond at all.

The beauty of n/c is that even if you start out with a subconscious hope that it will make her miss you and you get her back, after a month or so you will likely not care about whether or not she contacts you or not, or about reconciliation at all. You may well find out that you are happier without the relationship with some distance.

Stay the course.
 
plommer
You'll probably find that while it may be easy to not contact her it will become more and more difficult to not stalk her.

If you are going to stalk her, do it right. Don't be a sloppy stalker or you'll get caught.

:boxcleanersdaddy:
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As long as an emergency does not happen to her or someone we both know very well then this is going to be straight forward. This is no financial incentive that either one has on the other that is worth a darn. While I like her son and adore the dog, they were going to have to be replaced in my heart anyways when this did not work. Once the weather improves towards summer, I will probably relocate towards the western part of the United States if we were not together. That is the goal I work on now
 
IAG
I didn't watch the video, but I assume you are not going to respond at all.

The beauty of n/c is that even if you start out with a subconscious hope that it will make her miss you and you get her back, after a month or so you will likely not care about whether or not she contacts you or not, or about reconciliation at all. You may well find out that you are happier without the relationship with some distance.

Stay the course.
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Video not necessary and it is long but it gives me a chuckle...

I had found that the only path her email could get to me I checked quite a few times. My email account is over a decade old and Im not giving it up. I have blocked it all except one path which I can not it seems. ...going to try and flex these new found mental muscles and not look at the email for 24 hours
 
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