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so i'm officially single.

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OK YOU GUYS WE ARE GOING TO AGREE TO DISAGREE. THIS IS A VERY PERSONAL SITUATION AND I REALLY DO NOT APPRECIATE YOUR EGGING IT ON.

i was heart broken, i am heart broken, and hurt and you are making me feel worse. you must be sickly enjoying this.
 
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So let me understand. A girl decides she wants to be with me only physically. I agree to that. We spend quite a bit of time together being physical and in that time, she is exclusive with me (by her choice). She ends up meeting another guy, and her and I continue our physical relationship, but I am now aware I am not the only one in the equation. I also realize I have real feelings for her. She now has a responsibility to break up with me? Wouldn't it be ME to end this affair? Aren't I an adult that made this agreement knowing full well that this could happen?

in my situation we dated for months, 4 or 5, before he told me he couldnt be in a relationship full throttle, but that he liked me a lot and wants to be with me, but he can only go so far. at that point i agreed. of course feelings developed over time. on both ends. he and i both fell into it with each other. he and i talked about it around new years and he again said he couldnt ever go that deep into a relationship, but he adores me and is falling for me. Of course at this point im in love with him. and while yes i should have known better and broken up with him and said "you know what this sint going to work" i stayed with him anyway and i lied and said i was okay with that even though i wasn't. i knew better, but i was blinded by the feelings i had for him. becuase i was falling in love with him. fast forward to now 7 months later and i am in love with him and he knows it. and thats why we broke up. becuase he finally realized that he is leading me on to somethign he can never give me. so yeah its my fault wally, are you happy now? because god forbid i fall in love with him and want to be with him and think "maybe he will change.

i hadnt cried at all about this. not one tear. and now i am sitting here typing and SOBBING thanks Wally and Casper you are two stand up guys. real winners you two.

blame the girl blame me. but PLEASE drop it. please im BEGGING you, sitting here crying asking you please Wally STOP.
 
This has evolved into a whole other issue. It doesn't matter who developed feelings and what was initially said. It would be like saying, "I don't like milk" a year ago but then decided, after I drank it that I do enjoy it. People can change their minds. There's not burden on the other person to end it. It becomes an issue when the other person ACTS like there could be more when there is no intent to do that. He said pretty words to make a girl want to be with him and when confronted because Cali balled up, he bailed.

Perry Mason has left the building.