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i cant wait to see how this works out ...
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I am scheduling a meeting wiht her, bringing her to a hotel and not proposing because if I do and when I do it will be amazing for her. I have loved her all this time and I am not joking. I am simply going to lay out for her my juncture professionally (turning it around and when I get the Associates I probably have a guaranteed decent job in that if I decide to switch it up) and am going to tell her that if she comes with me she doesn't need to work she does what she wants and does what she can to keep the guy in me that could have this world by the balls on track to do it. On weekends she is my muse and the world is our playground. This is not a joke, I feel sorry for that guy but it could be GG buddy should have bought her a ring.
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Steve, there is nothing more I can really add here.

A hotel room? Proposal? How about a coffee shop, just to talk and connect in person? If this is the one, she'll still be the one in a few months. You need to give both of you some time to untangle from your other attachments and be a little more stable before you jump in.

I hope you take the advice all these people are giving you, everyone here is looking out for you.

Good Luck.
 
this is a terribly bad idea IMO
and I know my opinion doesnt hold much weight but.......

God Dammit dude, you are setting yourself up for failure, if she does run off with you she will use you for a piggy bank
if not, you get your ass severely beaten, possibly worse by the drugged out boyfriend

tread lightly
and becareful who you cross along your path to righteousness.
 
Candid reaction - Stevie, you're doomed to repeat the same pattern you did with the previous girl unless you get a real job (by real job, I mean a salaried position where you get paid x no matter what). What you're doing now doesn't allow for relationships and I'm 90% certain that it is the source of most of your problems, including your wild mood swings. Presumably, you've been "closing" quite a bit recently.

...and what BGS said earlier... SLOW THE F*** DOWN.
 
I'm sorry Stevie if I've come across as rude and offensive to your situation. I just can't take most of your posts seriously because you are all over the place. A while back, I asked your age because I was certain you were in your early 20's, which would explain your inconsistent feelings for what you do and do not want in a relationship. But you are in your 30's. You need to gather up all of those good intentions and first make things right for yourself. You won't be able to make anyone else happy if you aren't consistently happy with where you are in your life.

From what you have said several times over, people really like and appreciate you for helping them on a business level. If you have properly networked yourself and have the business savvy to back it up, you shouldn't have too much difficultly obtaining a position with a reputable company that offers benefits and a steady income. But that's only part of your problem. The other more pressing issue is that you really shouldn't jump from one very serious relationship to another.
 
Hi. Big romantic checking in here.

Stevie, slow the heck down. She is still in a relationship and while she may not have that magical ring yet, that isn't to say that her heart isn't still committed. Do you love her enough to let her go? Because being with that other guy might be what she thinks makes her happy. Now, since she doesn't have that ring, you feel free to woo the woman. Don't make any grand gestures though. You don't want to scare her off. Do little things. I know I would be more than willing to help you with ideas. But as for meeting her this weekend, you need to meet casually. Either for coffee or take her out for ice cream. And its ok to tell her that she always stayed on your mind but leave off the part about your kids. Too soon. Just because you have these feelings doesn't mean that hers are on the same level. Time can be your friend.
 
174 it looks like stevie got all his online friends to go against you

174 air condition today, weekend muse tomorrow

174 this could easily play out like one of those stupid romantic comedy movies played in the US, GG to that loser 174 he snooze he lose

2010 the year of steve and the metal tiger :punches:
 
oh wow. was this facebook feeler the same feeler that you were asking about a few weeks ago? the one where she agreed to let you fuck her in the ass?

stevie, im sure theres plenty of good advice in this thread so im not going to bother offering mine.
 
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