In an ideal situation I would've liked having a small family, living in a hi rise condo downtown. Hockey, big fat cat etc.. it feels cozy to me. Maybe reminds me of my own childhood.
Been working full-time since the age of 21. Wife doesn't work 'cause she has to, she works 'cause she's a neuroscience nerd. It makes little financial sense. But I wouldn't have married a housewife.
I'm not sure why you're so intent on comparing our lifestyles.