My brother liked a lot of jarring music. As I ponder the funeral playlist - and I have decided to focus on music he liked (rather than music that is sort of on-point and message-y - like that Warren Zevon Keep Me in Your Heart - or whatever) - but no I recall different things that he loved and give them a listen.
A lot of jarring stuff.
It is all stuff I like too. Apparently I like a lot of jarring music. I never really stopped to consider until something like this comes up. I throw on a song thinking, 'Yes, we loved that.'
But we get into it and then it's no, that's a bit much under the circumstances.
I don't think I want jarring for this. And it's no problem really. There is enough non-jarring stuff. A bit more hunting required is all.
But yap, wow, with the jarring music.