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Valorem's Heart Healing Project

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She did....

I responded in a calm and rational manner...got the answers to what I asked...and promptly told her I wish her well..

Going to spend Valentines Day alone but it is my choice....

I have rid my life of manipulation by her...
 
Blitty my weewee has been so very cold sometimes and I'm just so thankful it's found a warm and happy home.

Val, specific dialogue is requested, if that's cool. I don't see why this girl can't be friend zoned in a month from what I've heard so far.
 
Play it cool man, don't initiate contact but do answer if she comes to you. When you speak to her, nothing about the past unless she does it first then you're just glad you had so much time together. If she asks how you're doing as far as she knows you just opened for the Stones and are at the after party but of course don't make things sound unrealistic. I like where this is headed man but if you express hostility towards her you probably won't speak again.
 
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Play it cool man, don't initiate contact but do answer if she comes to you. When you speak to her, nothing about the past unless she does it first then you're just glad you had so much time together. If she asks how you're doing as far as she knows you just opened for the Stones and are at the after party but of course don't make things sound unrealistic. I like where this is headed man but if you express hostility towards her you probably won't speak again.
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I am not doing this to win her back and I am on the fence about anything else
 
bacon
I hear you man.
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I tell you this. When communication was briefly reopened, she answered the phone or texted me back immediately when she could not pick up when at work. She even called me back after asking that I call back after five minutes.

This was not happening before but what kind of relationship can be built when it takes this to be treated with respect...more out of fear than respect I think
 
Cami
So much for NC. Glad it was amicable though. How you holdin up?
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I broke no contact to reply....

She gave me all the classic breadcrumbs so that she could call the shots and have me on a back burner for convienance..

not willing to close the door on us

have love for you


In the end, she says she does not feel like she wants to be pressured into something and that I am doing that today. I told her there is no pressure as I am not pursuing her as an option.

I love her but enough is enough
 
Yeah you haven't even been talking to her, so what is there for you to pressure her into? Unless she means the relationship and marriage aspect. Yeah, unfortunately in some cases, there comes a time were you have to cut your losses and focus on yourself. No point in being in a relationship if you aren't happy.
 
In fact, what that sounds like to me, is that she still wants you in her life, at her convenience, and on her terms, and nothing more. She doesn't want to be alone, but she still wants whatever it is she feels she can still get from you. At least, that's how it sounds to me.
 
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