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Valorem's Heart Healing Project

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Cami
In fact, what that sounds like to me, is that she still wants you in her life, at her convenience, and on her terms, and nothing more. She doesn't want to be alone, but she still wants whatever it is she feels she can still get from you. At least, that's how it sounds to me.
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This is what I thought as well ...... No contact for those ten or how ever many days did get responses back from her in an immediate fashion...as soon as she were to get some comfort level in going back to how it was with me doing most the communications then this situation is restored and her ego gets the boost it likes.

Im not doing this to get back at her...I want her but this is clearly unhealthy or unequal...so it must be this one...
 
Valorem
This is what I thought as well ...... No contact for those ten or how ever many days did get responses back from her in an immediate fashion...as soon as she were to get some comfort level in going back to how it was with me doing most the communications then this situation is restored and her ego gets the boost it likes.

Im not doing this to get back at her...I want her but this is clearly unhealthy or unequal...so it must be this one...
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Yup, unfortunately, chances are, if nothing changed after however long, and you get back together, it would just go right back to they way it used to be. A relationship is supposed to be 50/50 in all aspects. Next time she contacts you, wait it out for a few hours, then gt back to her if you feel inclined to do so. Don't be a lap dog.
 
Valorem
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No offense, but I feel you backsliding...which is perfectly normal at this stage. I'm kind of a hopeless romantic so there is a part of me that is rooting for reconciliation, but you haven't given us enough to go on to make an objective argument for or against it.

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I will tell you ignoring VDAY will probably be the best thing you can do if you really want her out of your life. And vice versa....very symbolic day..like it or not.
 
IAG
No offense, but I feel you backsliding...which is perfectly normal at this stage. I'm kind of a hopeless romantic so there is a part of me that is rooting for reconciliation, but you haven't given us enough to go on to make an objective argument for or against it.

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I will tell you ignoring VDAY will probably be the best thing you can do if you really want her out of your life. And vice versa....very symbolic day..like it or not.
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I take no offense...the relationship will not go further downhill if no valentine pleasentries are exchanged
 
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