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Just played a quick game. Answered some lifelines for you guys, and I am having trouble that you didn't know which movie opened up with Kenny Loggins "I'm Alright" tune.

That can't be right, can it?
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Who me? I didn't know that one.

You see the answer after you send off the lifeline but I'm not even positive right now. Caddyshack, wasn't it?
 
Anyone ever be the only person to get a question correct? I did on the first one in game I just played. Small value question, but still.

So naturally I started to talk smack. Got one guy pretty angry. Two questions later I was in last place and hearing it from this guy.

Finished the game in 3rd, he in second last. I snuck in a few last jabs before I moved to next round.

Oh man what a loser I am.
 
CaliGirlNJ
i think i might puke all over my laptop
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If I had replied 20 minutes ago, I would've said it's the grossest, most ridiculous thing ever. Which is also what I've said to Tella and Rubbie in a thread about a year ago.

But then the little dude came stumbling out of bed, switched my tv channel to Indonesian news (sbr chat guys will prob get this) and came to crash on my lap.

And I'm a bit fucked because I love him to death. Totally doesn't fit into any idea of my professional life before and the pregnancy process is gory but man, this little turd can seriously kill me. Blah I know. I feel blah even just typing it.
 
As a friend told me when she was going through pregnancy, "I'm going to write a book about what really happens when you're pregnant. Some really nasty shit happens." But, she has a super cute baby, so I guess it was worth the gross stuff.

I wonder if mucous plugs were part of the nasty shit.
 
But to reiterate - I never had the mucous plug. My little guy came too early for that. I'd be skeeved out by that and would probably still be having flashbacks.

Speaking of flashbacks, I thought of GL today but felt a little shy to share this considering the flow of the forum lately but wth.

When I first moved to Australia, I bought a car but was too scared to drive it (wrong side of road) so I took public transport.

One morning on the tram - 7:30am probably - a guy was there eying up chicks, stroking his dick with this weird look on his face while it hung out of his pants zip.

I think he was just making eye contact with anyone who did with him, as you would, but he sat there stroking himself first thing in the morning which was a bit odd.

Anyway, this was 6 years ago. It still wigs me out and the thought of it still makes me want to puke. Same feeling I get when random people whistle from their trucks (not because I'm cute - solely because I have a vag), so I wonder if this guy fucked me up. Could a random person who doesn't even know I exist have the power to screw me up????? If so, need help to correct that please, however you do.
 
Yeah

when humans do things that are way outside the realm of what you think is acceptable and reasonable human behavior...... it can fuck you up

depending upon your sensitivity level, it can even lead to post-tramautic stress disorder.

the cognitive dissonance needs to be resolved, by seeing many healthy men, with healthy dicks, not rubbing one off on the tram and/or seeing a healthy dicks used in a reasonable manner.

I think gamelive might not be helping in that regard.

unless you think it is acceptable to put a weiner in a toliet paper tube and grab a camera.
 
Teela
As a friend told me when she was going through pregnancy, "I'm going to write a book about what really happens when you're pregnant. Some really nasty shit happens." But, she has a super cute baby, so I guess it was worth the gross stuff.

I wonder if mucous plugs were part of the nasty shit.
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There''s an Aussie chick who wrote a book who although I think toned it down a bit, was pretty spot on. I was quite lucky with the gross shit just because he was early. But the pain stuff was out of control. What I had is called a Placental Abruption. Which basically means your baby's placenta rips away from you and needs to expel - both blood and body wise with no drugs.

I don't recommend this kid thing to anyone. Until I see him and then I kind of do but still, no. I've somehow had to ditch what I enjoyed to accept the fact that a kid throwing poo at me is funny.I'm doing the best I can but this is so not my style and I really struggle at times.
 
Oksana, I'm with you (minus the creepy masturbating guy). I'm not sure if it's because I'm older, but I feel as though the reaction (of random guys) is really degrading or crossing a boundary. I worked with a woman this past year that became really uncomfortable when a guy hugged her. We discussed it and it was really just a matter of invading her space or her privacy. I don't think it's a reaction to some guy squeezing his ketchup packet around you. It's a normal reaction to feeling like a boundary is crossed, especially by someone that you don't know.
 
Oksana
Could a random person who doesn't even know I exist have the power to screw me up????? If so, need help to correct that please, however you do.
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I know of no way to answer that without sounding very cliched - but the way I look at it: no person has the power to screw me up unless I give it to them.

In this case: what the guy was doing was all about him. It was his choice and his shit. He's just some maladjusted fok.

That has nothing to do with you. You weren't doing anything wrong.

If someone wants to whack off in my presence or try getting in my head in some other way as some human beings do, I just shrug it off.

I can't control the world. Guaranteed there is going to be idiotic shit happen. I can only control my reactions to it.



Now sometimes that is easier said than done. It took me some time between being able to say those words and it being a true statement of what was going on inside of me. My psychological state is something I had to work at.

But I have come a long way - and if I can, anyone can.



My 2 cents.
 
Archie
Yeah

when humans do things that are way outside the realm of what you think is acceptable and reasonable human behavior...... it can fuck you up

depending upon your sensitivity level, it can even lead to post-tramautic stress disorder.

the cognitive dissonance needs to be resolved, by seeing many healthy men, with healthy dicks, not rubbing one off on the tram and/or seeing a healthy dicks used in a reasonable manner.

I think gamelive might not be helping in that regard.

unless you think it is acceptable to put a weiner in a toliet paper tube and grab a camera.
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I actually think it screwed me up. I could cite multiple examples of things that skeeve me out now but I need to get this fucker out of my head.

And I honestly don't know how.

I assume you're just being typical shit stirrer you but I'm actually being sincere. Truly not sure how to remedy this and I don't want this person to colour my life as he doesn't have the right to do that. Yet he has since then so I need to fix that. Yuck. Anyway - that's my share for the month. GL for life :)
 
I think it comes down to seeing and realizing the tip of the iceberg about how horrible humans can be. and how far they can stray from what is "acceptable protocol"


I think in the case of women, and people that have tiny little loved ones that they are responsible...

it can be shocking to see that there are people out there, that just don't live in these pretty well defined boundaries of how to live.

and that little bit of a doubt, opens up the fear towards all the scary things we read about and hear about on the news....but are disconnected with.

but when you start to see deviant behavior, and realize we live in a world of a bunch of animals, and many of them are crazy and fucked up beyond belief..

it can be scary to thank about the randomnness and unpredictable nature of it all
 
Teela
Oksana, I'm with you (minus the creepy masturbating guy). I'm not sure if it's because I'm older, but I feel as though the reaction (of random guys) is really degrading or crossing a boundary. I worked with a woman this past year that became really uncomfortable when a guy hugged her. We discussed it and it was really just a matter of invading her space or her privacy. I don't think it's a reaction to some guy squeezing his ketchup packet around you. It's a normal reaction to feeling like a boundary is crossed, especially by someone that you don't know.
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I somehow missed this but yes, this is my issue. I've went from thinking that I wanted guys hoots when I was 16 to being skeeved out when I get them. But it's not like they really give us a manual for this, do they? I swear to fok I'd pay for one of those Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind things... How can this still flash through my mind at random times??????????? I've tried everything I know to get it out and while I understand that for some they can't understand it - for me it's just like the worst dick imaginable. Just erase that tram ride from my brain please. One time.

And ty Archie. That's all I'll say xo
 
I'm being sincere.

its not uncommon at all for some random unexpected thing like to that to get stuck in your craw

I wish I knew how to tell you a way to get it out of your mind.

basically in all my years of Psych reading, the things that help the most in ANY situation is a) time b) support from people that have had similar experiences c) talking about it to whomever (not bottling it up) d) attempting to prove your worst fears wrong......... ie maybe going on more tram rides and NOT seeing hideous dicks e) accepting that life is full of crazy shit, and choosing to laugh at the absurdity of it all.
 
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