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so i'm officially single.

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Bread, you can't be so detached from life that you can't see there is actually something deeper here, can you?

Sure it's her life and it stands to reason no advice will be taken seriously enough to make a difference.

Pain is real Bread and often the pain is brought on by ourselves.
 
Bread
Wally wouldn't you like to be Mr. Wrong for a hot little number sometime? Have it on call for when you had nothing else going on?

VROOM VROOM.
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Not saying it's not a good arrangement for the guy.

Also if the female takes it for what it is and is content and doesn't want more then good for her too. According to Cali's previous post she isn't that female that doesn't want more though.

Wal knows self destructive false hope Bread.
 
RayRay
i wouldnt tell any of your friends you did this.... you dont want to be labeled as "that" girl... the one that goes running to a guy when he calls for sex because one of the other girls he has been seeing isnt around... you do realize this is what happened right? a guy isnt going to stop having semi casual sex with a girl because he "doesnt want to hold you back" :lol: its a good line, but complete bullshit...he has been seeing someone else and perhaps it just didnt work, so he called you...

call him when he gets back in town and see if he will get together with you...if he is full of excuses, then its really time to just say "fuck it" and turn him down the next time or two ... the way fuck buddies works is you have to reciprocate with each other... him calling you when he is horny and then blowing you off when he has someone else isnt how it works...its a mental fuck job for you and you will never gain any power over anything if you cave each time, only to be rejected when you have needs. gl pal
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Cali, I haven't read the whole thread but I did read the first and last few pages.

What struck me most was the fact you cut him loose before (or put yourself in a spot where it was easy for him to cut you loose) because you weren't getting enough from him. It was too casual. He wasn't making you a priority. Basically, it sounded like you had a friends with benefits relationship...or something evolving more and more towards that...and it wasn't enough for you.

Now you say that you specifically asked him last night (or whenever) if he would consider having a friends with benefit arrangement.

I mean...wtf? I can't help but want to shake you firmly by the shoulders and ask you how the hell you think that's going to work out in the end for you when you ADMIT you LOVE THE GUY.

Cali, come on. You are giving him ALL the power and ASKING to be put right back in the situation you were in before. This guy is going to walk all over you because you are laying the carpet out on top of yourself.
 
Maybe, but it's frustrating to read. I think shes a good kid at heart and I dont want to see her right back in a situation thats going to end up hurting her.

But we all have to live our own lives and eventually learn, or not learn, from our own mistakes.
 
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