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so i'm officially single.

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no i don't work with him at all. we met through a friend at a bar 16 or 17 months ago.

he's known since the day he met me that if he calls i'll answer.

i've never been "that girl" before. but for him, i'd do anything. evaluating my position here (or lack there of) it all seems very surreal.

well his AC was set to like 8- and it was really hot... but no thats not why i was naked.
 
i wouldnt tell any of your friends you did this.... you dont want to be labeled as "that" girl... the one that goes running to a guy when he calls for sex because one of the other girls he has been seeing isnt around... you do realize this is what happened right? a guy isnt going to stop having semi casual sex with a girl because he "doesnt want to hold you back" :lol: its a good line, but complete bullshit...he has been seeing someone else and perhaps it just didnt work, so he called you...

call him when he gets back in town and see if he will get together with you...if he is full of excuses, then its really time to just say "fuck it" and turn him down the next time or two ... the way fuck buddies works is you have to reciprocate with each other... him calling you when he is horny and then blowing you off when he has someone else isnt how it works...its a mental fuck job for you and you will never gain any power over anything if you cave each time, only to be rejected when you have needs. gl pal
 
Why do men and women put themselves into these types of situations?

I understand lonely, maybe as well and probably better than anyone here. I know how good it feels to be with someone and I know what it is to fool myself into believing " I can change their mind". I am fat and I am not an attractive man, I don't have a lot of money and I take care of two elderly people. What I am saying is I have as good a reason as anyone to be someone's "ol' reliable" but I don't.

Cali, it is your life and obviously there are some deep beneath the surface issues but why, how can you do this to yourself? You come across as having a high opinion of yourself yet you are doing one of the most destructive things anyone can do to themselves. This type of destruction isn't just emotional, it is mental and often physical as well. Not only now but could easily warp you for your entire life.

I can't undo the things I have said to you and have you take me seriously but guys DON'T take women like you seriously or have any respect for them. You have exposed yourself as someone who can simply be taken for granted.

You have convinced yourself that this guy is something he's probably not nor ever will be. That's your right but you are doing yourself one of the biggest injustices you possibly could.
 
Sure there's emotion. Is she the only person here in her mid 20's to make bad, perhaps even terrible relationship/sex decisions? Commonn.

But then again it seems like she is looking for advice/critique, so don't mind me.
 
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Sure there's emotion. Is she the only person here in her mid 20's to make bad, perhaps even terrible relationship/sex decisions? Commonn.

But then again it seems like she is looking for advice/critique, so don't mind me.
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Nope. She certainly isn't the first and it's probably pretty futile to offer advice to someone about a relationship as an outsider.

But it's so glaringly obvious to outsiders that you feel that you have to...
 
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