This blows my mind.
I almost wrote this yesterday but got lazy (and also was a bit worried I sounded a little snobby and/or insensitive): On Ellen, she tricked this family into coming to the show saying the daughter won some "I'm the biggest Taylor Swift" fan. So she calls the teenage daughter up on stage and gives her tickets to Taylor's next concert, backstage passes, etc... Much crying ensues from the daughter and her teenage sister. Even the parents were standing up and cheering. Then she calls the rest of the family on stage and has the daughter read a letter she wrote talking about how her dad's a chauffeur and her mom's a diner waitress in Long Island, they both have been laid off at different times in the past two years and because of that and medical problems they had to declare bankruptcy. Very sad. Ellen gives them a trip on a cruise for 7 days. You'd think they won the lotto.
Then Ellen's like wait, there's more, and then gives them $20k cash to help out with their bills. The way this family reacted I'm surprised they didn't need to call an ambo. They're all crying, I'm crying, Seth's crying because I'm crying. It was really beautiful. Yeah it's a tax writeoff for Ellen's show but I don't care. Cash is cash and that family obviously needed it.
But after I was thinking about how 20k doesn't seem like a life changing amount of money unless it was for a transplant or meds or to smuggle your family out of an oppressed country maybe. But to a regular family in Long Island? I was just surprised by how excited they were. And a bit embarrassed by how jaded I felt.
And now in that Casper thread, look at the money people are flashing! They whipped it out to show Casper what an absolute fool he is but it was more than double the amount that that family received. Money they have sitting at home - for whatever purpose - is life changing to other people. Not sure where I'm going with this but it set me off on this big internal dialogue about money. I'm starting to think the whole concept of cash is a very fucked up thing.