Mrs. X
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but you don't do them anymore, right
I do not.
FOKKKKK.
Why again? Sometimes I forget.
but you don't do them anymore, right
because we are responsible law abiding model citizens
cindigo have you ever beat up someone? like punches and kicks and stuff
You're a sicko RJ.
I'm not promoting the divorce. My stance is that she has to come to a decision as to what's best for the kids and then make that happen. Suffer in silence and do the best she can to keep dad around or step up and be a single parent.
Right now, water shut off, electric bill $600 in the rears in danger of being shut off. Last pay day (husband has no steady work) he bought a
$1400 gun (I was assured it was for target practice and my sister has no fear of being murdered). She's no saint and has almost zero money management skills but husband is actively destroying the financials if there ever are any to speak of. Child protective services were called a few months back, both of them are near hoarders but he's pretty set on my sister keeping everything in order. An impossible task for either one of them. The charges from the state were dropped. The (suspect) story I was told is that a vindictive neighbor called them because they reported them for drag racing down the street.
They're both pretty child like and irresponsible but together they have a awesome superpower of destruction. They both really love their kids but have a huge problem with being responsible adults which is really wrecking everything in sight.
Helene....not really helping. Her stance is to tell my sister that she'll "pay for a lawyer and that bastard will never see his kids again". I want to say that her heart is in the right place, but that lady is living out some repetitive scenario in her head that no one can crack through.
Oh sweet ambien, take me away.
Mr. X come home! I'm sure your world isn't any better where you are.
Mr. X is much more stoic than I.
this is why they took the road trip with you?
oh mrsX
Don't let her talk you into moving in.
Helene wanted to "bond" with her daughters. No matter how I tried to convince her it was a horrible idea, she had it stuck in her mind that it was going to be great. The first night she was at my sister's house she called and tried to back out of it and make me go by myself. I said, "no dice lady, get in the car". In hindsight, I probably should have let her bail for all of our sakes.
My sister wanted to take the road trip to "clear her head" to try and make a decision about the marriage.[highlight] Besides being involved in a scammy mulit level marketing business[/highlight], she does have a somewhat legit job that takes a few hours a day as a telemarketer manager that she does through the internet and phone, so she can "work" while she's here.
She was here a short time ago. Her husband took the kids to his relative's house in Nebraska. He wasn't going to bring them back. We were talking and she kind of told me that one of her plans was to move her and the kids to Denver to be close to us. I had a totally visceral uncontrolled nauseousness and "Oh god NO" came out of my mouth. I really hurt her feelings and I still feel bad about it.
That story even made my stomach turn.
ooooooohhh
Doesn't that hurt a guy?