Badnina
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Because you shouldn't have to be told to support us. You really shouldn't ask. Just do it.
How does not showing up to one run mean you're not being supportive?
I guess that's my problem. Fuck anyone who is needy. You shouldn't need my support to do something you wanna do. And yes, I'll probably die alone. But I'd rather die alone than waste my fuckin life arguing about showing up to some ridiculous fuckin 5k when the girl told me I could finally get some time for my fucking self.
Put me on the die alone list too. I'm always going to be a straight shooter. If I ask her if she wants me to be there for something and she says yes, then I'm there. If she says it's not necessary, then I'm not going unless I want to. I guess that makes us assholes Focker. But I can live with being an honest asshole if that's the choice over being phony and playing stupid head games.
Put me on the die alone list too. I'm always going to be a straight shooter. If I ask her if she wants me to be there for something and she says yes, then I'm there. If she says it's not necessary, then I'm not going unless I want to. I guess that makes us assholes Focker. But I can live with being an honest asshole if that's the choice over being phony and playing stupid head games.
The Die Alone List **UPDATED**
1) Mudcat
2) MonkeyFOcker
3) Jello
I get that, but why when he asked did she say that there was no need to go.
We men deal in absolutes mostly, no means no.
Because when we tell you its no big deal in our language, translated to manspeak means "It means a big f**king deal" and you should be supportive and encouraging. Then we will brag to all our friends, relatives and strangers about how wonderful and thoughtful you are and how we are lucky to have you.
Robyn, I really like what you did with your hair tonight.
Might have been as simple of an explanation as just that time of month? Or did someone mention that already? MrsMonkey just flat out tells me right from the start that she has it bad so watch out. Like the heads up, but still so stupid I can't keep my mouth shut.
I don't know her personally but her reaction does not surprise me. She wants to feel supported despite what she might have said. She wants you to support her because you really want to, not because she instructs you to.
To be honest, I was expecting you to say she was mad because you got her a gift card rather than a personalized gift.
I am with you in that I recognize the contradictions in her actions. But sometimes that is part of the deal. What can I say?
Women.