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MrX
One of my favorite people in the world that isn't MrsX sleeps with lots and lots of people.
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I read that as "Mrs. X sleeps with lots and lots of people" and was very confused.

One of my favorite people also. It's a couple. At one point, they were kind of hitting on us, I think. But despite my open mindedness in theory, it weirded me out a little. Or, I just wasn't attracted to him or her. He's Asian and I'm not that attracted to Asians (sorry Kato). She's an awesome friend and a seven foot tall Amazon. I was scart.
 
MrX
Among most people in our society, she would become a running joke, yes, and I think that's completely fucked up. "Simply a way to get your nut off?" For me, no. I feel emotionally closer to people I sleep with, for some guys, sure. Again, though, I don't get why any of that makes her a lesser quality person.
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I guess you don't understand what I'm getting at. I'm really not sure how you figure you're going to be emotionally closer to this girl when it's quite clear that she isn't emotionally available. She becomes a joke because she is the one who is supposed to have control. It's no less of a joke than Brock Landers. A lesser quality person? Who said that? Can't a whore be a good person?

Quite honestly, I'm tired of people trying to erase gender roles and create absolute androgeny in our society. Men and women are NOT the same. I have no idea why people think they should be.
 
MrX
As for this, I guess you're saying that something about my looks or personality make it hard for me to get laid? Jesus, I'm almost 40 years old. I went to college. I liked drugs. No matter how funny-looking or nerdy or whatever you think I am, it's not so hard for a person like me to have had plenty of whatever kind of sex I wanted.

I have a friend who sleeps with a lot, probably most, of her friends. So does her husband. I don't know if I'll be able to convince you of this, but their sexual habits don't lower my opinion of them one bit. They are amazing people. I'm glad that they get to have so much fun.
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No. You took that the absolute wrong way.

I meant because of your reaction, it seemed clear to me that you've never been in a setting where you and your friends shared girls.

And open, swinger relationships aren't even close to the same animal.
 
Mrs. X
I read that as "Mrs. X sleeps with lots and lots of people" and was very confused.

One of my favorite people also. It's a couple. At one point, they were kind of hitting on us, I think. But despite my open mindedness in theory, it weirded me out a little. Or, I just wasn't attracted to him or her. He's Asian and I'm not that attracted to Asians (sorry Kato). She's an awesome friend and a seven foot tall Amazon. I was scart.
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no offense taken, mrs x.

:lmao:
 
MonkeyF0cker
No. You took that the absolute wrong way.

I meant because of your reaction, it seemed clear to me that you've never been in a setting where you and your friends shared girls.
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Okay, good. Sorry I jumped to conclusions, it read like an insult to me.

Bottom line for me is that your opening statement in this thread seems really contrary to someone who prides himself on bucking harmful societal pressures. Maybe you don't see calling someone a pathetic whore for casually sleeping with a dozen guys or so guys in college as harmful, but I really do. I think it's largely because of that kind of attitude that more "normal" girls are so embarrassed and/or ashamed about sex that they're not able to prepare for it. And, the minority who are just wired to want to have a lot of sex partners have to be looked down on by the majority of the world, despite the fact that they're not hurting anyone. I don't like it.
 
MrX
Okay, good. Sorry I jumped to conclusions, it read like an insult to me.

Bottom line for me is that your opening statement in this thread seems really contrary to someone who prides himself on bucking harmful societal pressures. Maybe you don't see calling someone a pathetic whore for casually sleeping with a dozen guys or so guys in college as harmful, but I really do. I think it's largely because of that kind of attitude that more "normal" girls are so embarrassed and/or ashamed about sex that they're not able to prepare for it. And, the minority who are just wired to want to have a lot of sex partners have to be looked down on by the majority of the world, despite the fact that they're not hurting anyone. I don't like it.
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This has absolutely nothing to do with societal pressures. It has to do with interpersonal respect. If someone allows me to do ANYTHING I want to them with absolutely no shame, I simply cannot respect that person. I don't care if it means that a person is a complete pushover or if that person allows me and two friends to fill all holes and nut in their eye.
 
MrX
Okay, good. Sorry I jumped to conclusions, it read like an insult to me.

Bottom line for me is that your opening statement in this thread seems really contrary to someone who prides himself on bucking harmful societal pressures. Maybe you don't see calling someone a pathetic whore for casually sleeping with a dozen guys or so guys in college as harmful, but I really do. I think it's largely because of that kind of attitude that more "normal" girls are so embarrassed and/or ashamed about sex that they're not able to prepare for it. And, the minority who are just wired to want to have a lot of sex partners have to be looked down on by the majority of the world, despite the fact that they're not hurting anyone. I don't like it.
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