Cougar Bait
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i'm waiting to see if he pulls out
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i'm waiting to see if he pulls out
Tom is lovely. a bit more conservative than i would like, but nothing that can't be looked past or that is a deal breaker. he took me to an okay dinner, but the restaurant was on the bay and really pretty. i look forward to a nicer meal next time... i'm a food snob, i fully admit it. anyway i invited him upstairs for a drink before he went home. so he came up and we made out, and ended up half naked (upper) in my bed then he said he didnt have a condom... i said i wasnt planning on it getting that far... we made out a bit more and then he went home. I'm going over to his house on thursday for dinner, he told me to pack an over night bag lol.
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I can't believe this Tom guy is winning
Define conservative. Ask him if he likes Michele Bachman. If the answer is yes, go back to his place, tie him up, then tell him off and leave. Blame kato
Define conservative. Ask him if he likes Michele Bachman. If the answer is yes, go back to his place, tie him up, then tell him off and leave. Blame kato
i like him. he is everything i'm supposed to be looking for in a man. my question to myself is "do i really really like him, or do i like the idea of him?" only time will tell
I don't understand this. Everything you are supposed to be looking for in a man? What are your guidelines?
i mean like everything i should like in a man, which i do, he's kind, smart, funny (funny-ish), well off, owns a home, owns a brand new BMW, he really likes me, he likes to cook, he's really close (too close) with his parents and family, he wants a family, i get the feeling he's ready to settle down and get married in the next few years, has solid friendships, etc.
he's not going to take me to the cool exclusive bars in nyc and do blow with me in the bathrooms. he's not going to push me up against the wall and pour champagne down my tits and lick it off while keeping one hand on my neck pushing me hard against the wall of the hotel room. (true hot and sexy occurrences with my ex, Chris)
he's also not going to dick me around, or play games. (which my ex did).
*sigh* but a part of me needs the release of partying and fun. sad i know.
and *sigh* he really may be too close to mom and dad, like he goes over for dinner 3 nights a week, still takes his laundry home (he's 32 years old) and spends the night a couple nights a week, even though the condo he owns is only 10 or 15 miles away... so if i become the girlfriend, I WILL NOT be wanting to do that, and nights he would stay with mom and dad, he will be with me. and i will probably try to ween him off of mom and dad, which means Momma probably won't like me very much..... and thats something i do not want to have to deal with again.
But not creepy.Plommer is strangely sage-esque in much of his advice. It's weird.
Define conservative. Ask him if he likes Michele Bachman. If the answer is yes, go back to his place, tie him up, then tell him off and leave. Blame kato