Herman you asked for female feedback in this thread but it seems that the fellas are weighing in so I'll do the same.....
Herman how badly do you want to succeed with women? How hard are you willing to work at it? Herman.
Change your whole game plan. You're young enough to do it.
You don't need to be 8.5 on the guy 10 scale to have success with attractive women but you do have excel in other areas and set yourself apart from all the other toolboxes trying to pick them up.
Start with the way you dress. This is one of the first things a woman notices. Find a female friend that you trust and ask her if she'll go clothes shopping with you. Don't dress like Eminem (I'm not saying you do but you get the point).
Take a good look at your current source of income/job and ask yourself, "is this something I can do for a long time and make a good living doing so?' If not, come up with an action plan to become at least moderately financially successful.
Go to the gym and get your ass in shape. Hot girls like hot guys. You don't have to have a Brad Pitt face to be desirable to women but fit women like guys who are in shape, dress nice and have a secure source of income.
Don't even bother throwing game at the 8.5's and 9's until you have addressed these aspects of your life. The rejection will just make you negative and stomp out any confidence you have.