Well then. That works I guess. I'm sorry I just assumed that from your mentions and pictures it was semi-serious.
If you don't mind me asking, do you still have feelings for your ex? is this particular ex the Krazy Korean?
Also, not to be rude, and I know I am asking way personal things here, but what is it about Asains that you are so addicted to?
nah, nothing serious...we just like to overshare here at GL
... not krazykorean, she and i dont speak and unfortunately, the little korean is the one that really gets the ass end of that deal...
i miss hanging with viet ex, her little girl and all our friends... she just called me the other day to see if i wanted to hang out with all them...its always a good time and i go whenever she asks me... i wouldnt go unless she asked...her friends ask me to come hang out all the time, but its just weird unless yen asks.
the viet community is small and they go out of their way to try and forgive each other for wrong doings(neither of us did anything wrong, fwiw..just didnt work) ... prime example, husbands cheat and they get divorces and both end up dating their ex's best friends and all of them hang out, etc... now, to you and me, that sounds completely fucked up and something we would never do, but they do it so that the community can stick together...so when some of her friends found out i was coming to hang out tomorrow they all text me and were real excited and stuff...nobody has hard feelings about us not working out and we all stay friends....
i dated an asian for about 6 years and it was purely by luck that i met the korean right after that break up and she and i dated...its then that i kind of got labeled as one of those guys who "only dates asians" .. its really not true, but physically i do prefer them...
... by then, i had met and hung with so many other asians, that they were the majority of my friends that i would hang out with...was inevitable that i would date more of them