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so i'm officially single.

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RogueJuror
okie dokie

you always have my blessing to stab casper, anytime
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CaliGirlNJ
never. thats why this is confusing me. usually i'm doing the breaking up with a "good riddance" attitude.
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cgnj-

although your pain brings a lot of traffic, which is nice, please delete any and all things that tie you to this guy.

move on. go fuck something. go workout. go on a mad binge. something.

take pics of course.

i do not like to see anyone in the gamelive family in pain. please do the right thing.
 
CaliGirlNJ
never. thats why this is confusing me. usually i'm doing the breaking up with a "good riddance" attitude.
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Doesn't sound confusing to me, Cali.

You're not used to people ending relationships with you. Hence the feelings of "wtf".

Pretty normal reaction.

Time (and match.com) will make the "wtf" feeling go away

Be strong

God Bless

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CaliGirlNJ
so b/c im fucking nuts i wrote "you could at least acknowledge me babe" and again he didn't respond. i dont want to delete him from facebook because i feel like that's petty. but i think i'd be better off. i want to talk to him, i'm lame. fuck me.
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You're not being lame. But you are going to drive yourself batshit crazy if you don't delete him from Facebook at the very least. The petty thing is an excuse you're making to yourself so you don't cut a tie with him. Because your friends won't think you're being petty. Nor will anyone else with a functioning brain cell. So there's no pettiness worries there. And it's not like you should be worried if this guy views you that way because really who gives a fuck what he thinks? And to be honest, he seems to be in that stage where he's done. Emotionally checked out and moved on completely, whether with someone else or not. So even if he smirks to himself when he notices you're gone, your self-preservation should be worth more than worrying about looking childish to some guy who doesn't seem to be the most mature man anyway.

You're going to torture yourself unless you delete him. And you're also going to continue to carry on believing that there's hope that this will all get better somehow as long as you have ties to him. But he honestly sounds like he's finished. I used to always do exactly what he's doing right now. Just completely cut ties because either it was easier for me or I'm ashamed to admit I just didn't care enough anymore to be nice or deal with the drama. But then I ended up where you are right now 7 years ago. And I ended up going about as crazy as someone like me would ever go. I can only imagine how much worse it would've been if facebook had been around at the time. It's the fucking shittiest feeling in the world when someone can completely appear to discard you like a piece of rubbish. Your mind fucks with you in 1000 different ways and the guy ends up occupying much more mental real estate than he probably would've had you just had one final conversation/blow up to end it all. But that option doesn't seem likely to happen so please just hit delete. Or get JL to do it for you. Anyone reading this thread knows that this is a trainwreck waiting to happen unless you at least take one step. Do it to him before he deletes you so at least you'll feel like you have a little bit of control here. Now THAT'S a petty suggestion on my part but sometimes we need to do these little things to protect ourselves from further pain. xoxo
 
kato
cgnj-

although your pain brings a lot of traffic, which is nice, please delete any and all things that tie you to this guy.

move on. go fuck something. go workout. go on a mad binge. something.

take pics of course.

i do not like to see anyone in the gamelive family in pain. please do the right thing.
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that thread is soon to arrive, don't worry.
 
Oksana
You're not being lame. But you are going to drive yourself batshit crazy if you don't delete him from Facebook at the very least. The petty thing is an excuse you're making to yourself so you don't cut a tie with him. Because your friends won't think you're being petty. Nor will anyone else with a functioning brain cell. So there's no pettiness worries there. And it's not like you should be worried if this guy views you that way because really who gives a fuck what he thinks? And to be honest, he seems to be in that stage where he's done. Emotionally checked out and moved on completely, whether with someone else or not. So even if he smirks to himself when he notices you're gone, your self-preservation should be worth more than worrying about looking childish to some guy who doesn't seem to be the most mature man anyway.

You're going to torture yourself unless you delete him. And you're also going to continue to carry on believing that there's hope that this will all get better somehow as long as you have ties to him. But he honestly sounds like he's finished. I used to always do exactly what he's doing right now. Just completely cut ties because either it was easier for me or I'm ashamed to admit I just didn't care enough anymore to be nice or deal with the drama. But then I ended up where you are right now 7 years ago. And I ended up going about as crazy as someone like me would ever go. I can only imagine how much worse it would've been if facebook had been around at the time. It's the fucking shittiest feeling in the world when someone can completely appear to discard you like a piece of rubbish. Your mind fucks with you in 1000 different ways and the guy ends up occupying much more mental real estate than he probably would've had you just had one final conversation/blow up to end it all. But that option doesn't seem likely to happen so please just hit delete. Or get JL to do it for you. Anyone reading this thread knows that this is a trainwreck waiting to happen unless you at least take one step. Do it to him before he deletes you so at least you'll feel like you have a little bit of control here. Now THAT'S a petty suggestion on my part but sometimes we need to do these little things to protect ourselves from further pain. xoxo
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i adore you, you are so right in everything you said. i will delete him... i can't bring myself to do it now... but i'm going to let myself get really angry at him and do it tomorrow. it will be fun. AND i will post a video of me doing it for proof.
 
CaliGirlNJ
i adore you, you are so right in everything you said. i will delete him... i can't bring myself to do it now... but i'm going to let myself get really angry at him and do it tomorrow. it will be fun. AND i will post a video of me doing it for proof.
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Yes!!!!!!! :wally:

CaliGirlNJ
also, Oksana, thank you, your words have meant a lot to me.
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Anytime sweetpea. Trust me, I'll be needing some wisdom from you sooner rather than later I'm sure. xo
 
reno cool
ITH, common pal, you supposed to be pro. Isn't that kind of advice frowned upon in your profession?
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You're right Reno Cool.

Here's your homework Cali....see you next week

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"The two persons become well aquainted, their intimacy loses more and more of its miraculous character, until their antagonism, their disappointments, their mutual boredom kill whatever is left of the initial excitement. Yet, in the beginning they do not know all this: in fact, they take the intensity of the infatuation, this being "crazy" about each other, for proof of the intensity of their love, while it may only prove the degree of their preceding loniness. There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly, as love. If this were the case with any other activity, people would be eager to know the reasons for the failure, and to learn how one could do better - or they would give up the activity."
 
InTheHole
She ain't deleting shit Oskana...personally, cutting his brake lines is the only way to get over this break-up.
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Nah, I think she'll delete him. It really is the best thing to do and I have a feeling she'd give one of her friends the same advice in the same situation.

Facebook's evil for this kind of stuff. It's the ultimate form of masochistic behaviour to keep someone as a friend when going through a break up. I've watched other friends have complete meltdowns when they see their ex add new female friends and even track their location by that stupid check in feature so they could "randomly" turn up somewhere.

If it had been around years ago, I probably would've ended up medicated. My pride at the time couldn't fathom the whole completely blanking me thing and that whole hope for getting back together would've gone into overdrive with my trying to see secret Shari msgs in each of his status updates. It was bad enough with text msgs/emails and listening to old voice mails. I don't even want to think what would've happened if I saw his status change to in a relationship with someone else. Fuck that cockmunch. Delete delete delete.
 
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