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so i'm officially single.

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The guy sounds like a sleaze bucket.

There were obv other facets to his personality to make you want to be with him for so long but anyone who replies in a text like that is just a dick.

The no pictures thing is weird too.

Yuck. Sorry to hear this Cali.
 
Thanks Oksana, yeah the more I think about it, the more I guess i ought to be glad it's over. so many red flags. but then we spent thanksgiving together, and valentines day, he sent me 2 dozen roses on our 1 year anniversary. he wants to plan this trip to Jamaica with me. we go away on long weekends together. you know. all these wonderful things. and he says the right things and the right times. then on the other hand he is the most selfish person i have ever dated, he's probably seeing other women, even though last time it came up he said he wasn't. but now i think he is.

anyway i won't keep boring you guys with this shit. but i will let you know if i hear anything further from the ass hole.

thanks everyone for the love, support, and guidance. i needed to hear the truth. keep it comin' if you have more thoughts on the situation.
 
sorry to have to break it to you calig, but the guy told you he was tired and you should have listened...discussing girlfriend/relationship shit after a long day is the last thing we want to deal with when we are tired and ready for bed (especially if its borderline nagging)...im sure he cares about you and all that, but the guy was probably in bed and didnt want to discuss anything...you were only going to get bad news by pushing the issue...

women never have and never will understand certain things about men...you can call us names and accuse us of things, but the simple fact of the matter is that if we express to you that we are tired and dont want to deal with something right then and there, dont keep nagging...its going to end up with us telling you something we probably dont mean and something you dont want to hear...all in an attempt to get some peace and quiet so that we can go to bed.

fwiw, if you date someone with a kid for more than 3-4 months and they refuse to introduce you to their kid, even as a friend, then its time to bail on the deal or make it clear that you tend to date other people...when people dont involve you with certain aspects of their life, they arent worth getting deeply involved with.
 
deuce- no man, you were right on the money.
rayray - i agree to everything. i'm sure i made it worse by keeping at it. but at the same time, it was the first time i let my true feelings known and he didn't even care. ugh.
SoV, yeah his daughter, all over the apartment and on facebook. i mean she even has her own room at his apt. no ex-wife photos, they don't get along.
 
RayRay
sorry to have to break it to you calig, but the guy told you he was tired and you should have listened...discussing girlfriend/relationship shit after a long day is the last thing we want to deal with when we are tired and ready for bed (especially if its borderline nagging)...im sure he cares about you and all that, but the guy was probably in bed and didnt want to discuss anything...you were only going to get bad news by pushing the issue...

women never have and never will understand certain things about men...you can call us names and accuse us of things, but the simple fact of the matter is that if we express to you that we are tired and dont want to deal with something right then and there, dont keep nagging...its going to end up with us telling you something we probably dont mean and something you dont want to hear...all in an attempt to get some peace and quiet so that we can go to bed.

fwiw, if you date someone with a kid for more than 3-4 months and they refuse to introduce you to their kid, even as a friend, then its time to bail on the deal or make it clear that you tend to date other people...when people dont involve you with certain aspects of their life, they arent worth getting deeply involved with.
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Hi Juror.

Cali. Move on and find someone who is available. He was probably looking for a young, energetic girl (like yourself) to have good party times with. Did he ever have "the talk" with you about never getting serious?

And why were you dating a 45 year old dude? Old.Balls.
 
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