Teela
Wild Thing
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- Jan 26, 2010
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Let me put this out there:
When my ex was a douchebag and cheated on me, I never even thought to go any of the sites that he frequented to out him. Even when he continually insulted me and told lies about me, I remained silent. What we were dealing with, in my mind, was a private issue. It was never something that I would publicize because it would make me look petty and bitter. I can understand the immediate reaction to make him look bad in front of everyone, but I feel that, as a personal issue, it should remain that way. It was easier for me to sit back and take a different approach to it instead of being nasty about it. If everyone that we wronged in the past posted what an asshole we were, we would all look pretty bad. Yes, he lied and he's a fucktard for that. He may have had his reasons and I'm in no way defending him. I would be in the wrong to kick him when he's down - I'm sure whatever's going on at home is kicking his ass enough.
When my ex was a douchebag and cheated on me, I never even thought to go any of the sites that he frequented to out him. Even when he continually insulted me and told lies about me, I remained silent. What we were dealing with, in my mind, was a private issue. It was never something that I would publicize because it would make me look petty and bitter. I can understand the immediate reaction to make him look bad in front of everyone, but I feel that, as a personal issue, it should remain that way. It was easier for me to sit back and take a different approach to it instead of being nasty about it. If everyone that we wronged in the past posted what an asshole we were, we would all look pretty bad. Yes, he lied and he's a fucktard for that. He may have had his reasons and I'm in no way defending him. I would be in the wrong to kick him when he's down - I'm sure whatever's going on at home is kicking his ass enough.