Relationship Commandments (Do's and Dont's)

[CASPERWAIT$]

We have 103 active users.

My guesstimate is 100 guys and 3 girls.

That means we have 100 guys that have fucked up in dating and/or love at least once in our lives.

The 3 girls dont make mistakes. We all know that.

Guys, post something that you will never do again dating or relationship wise.

Post something you have done that helped move your best relationships forward.

Let's try to make the answers genuine and honest. If love to hear from you guys on this.

Girls, chime in of you agree or disagree of course.

 

[IAG]

There are at least active 4 girls...myself, Cami, Teela and Nina...


I just had to start out with a disagreement of course.

 

[Valorem]

Appearing that you need them is the death blow to the relationship

 

[Saulty]

Never get them high on your own supply.

 

[IAG]

Never get them high on your own supply.

Disagree with Valorem...qualified...

Don't know what Saulty means....but the best advice is in his signature.

 

[CASPERWAIT$]

Never get them high on your own supply.

Okay Scarface, explain why not?

Would you rather us get them high on someone else's supply?

 

[CASPERWAIT$]

Appearing that you need them is the death blow to the relationship

I read what you are saying.

Showing a need is different than a desire.

Needy is bad. Want is good.

Right?

 

[IAG]

Casper what would make you truly happy/content? As far as a relationship goes...what the hell is it you are looking for?

 

[CASPERWAIT$]

Casper what would make you truly happy/content? As far as a relationship goes...what the hell is it you are looking for?

You REALLY want to know?

I want to get my shit straight so I can have one girl to eat delivery food and drink alcohol in bed as we watch marathons of bad TV shows.

I want a girl who cares but doesn't smother.

I want a girl who affectionately smiles at what I say.

I want a girl that does want a kid. Preferably a girl who doesn't have one now.

I want a girl who doesn't take my shit and calls me out on it.

I will have this when I swallow the fact I'm driving down a long road trying to find a shortcut that doesn't exist.

Unfortunately, I am bulimic in reality.

 

[Saulty]

Okay Scarface, explain why not?

Would you rather us get them high on someone else's supply?

She can bring her own supply if she wants to get high. Take notice of my advice. That's the reason I have 3 cars paid off, a motorcycle, a house and $100,000 in the bank.

You have $100 to your name. So keep sharing your blow.

 

[CASPERWAIT$]

Saulty, I never have my own drugs.

I can honestly say that in my entire life of recreational and very sporadic drug use, I rarely bought drugs.

In facts every time I have done drugs with a girl that led to sex, she was the one supplying. Never me.

 

[Saulty]

Saulty, I never have my own drugs.

I can honestly say that in my entire life of recreational and very sporadic drug use, I rarely bought drugs.

In facts every time I have done drugs with a girl that led to sex, she was the one supplying. Never me.

This contradicts your post on #6.

 

[CASPERWAIT$]

When I say "on your own supply" I assume the notion the girl is with me and if I have drugs it's for both of us.

That being said, I've never had a girl hook up with me with the intention of doing my drugs.

 

[Archie]

never show them your gambling forum friends or try to get them to post at a forum

(unless you are casper, in which case ALWAYS do that)

 

[IAG]

never show them your gambling forum friends or try to get them to post at a forum

(unless you are casper, in which case ALWAYS do that)

:thumbsup:

 

[Archie]

I guess Cami came her via a BF

 

[Matty]

Saulty, I never have my own drugs.

I can honestly say that in my entire life of recreational and very sporadic drug use, I rarely bought drugs.

In facts every time I have done drugs with a girl that led to sex, she was the one supplying. Never me.

SHOCKING

 

[reno cool]

Casper makes me think of foking Guido(?) on the Sopranos.

Remember when Guido had to run away because others found out he was going to gay nightclubs etc.?

So he leaves town finds a lover and some job. He's at work, doing a bunch of shit and whatever, everything appears fine. Then he looks at his watch and its 9:30. :
He knows he has to go back even if it means death.

Casper will always get bored and start Caspering (as long as he's got the strength) no matter what he tells himself is good for him. I mean I can sympathize with that.