Like YEARS, Stevie, not days.
If you get all obsessed, and meet those kids, you'll charm them and give them all of the attention in the world, and kids will eat that up, 'cause I'm sure those kids are craving attention. You'll think you're doing a good things, because the kids will be loving you and loving the attention. Then, in a month or two when you're gone, they will get to experience abandonment again. Those kids don't need that shit.
Don't meet them. Just don't. Thank you.
I really appreciate that man.
Personally I don't know if I will be gone, she seems awesome. Scary awesome, how do we like all the same shit. All of it.
I know based on Nookie and the 8 year relationship thing your default thought would be that I will be gone but Nookie is a confused Nympho who tears through men like a Mac Truck and we broke it off for 2 reasons - 1) I said NO to the ex bf who had my tires slashed among so much other shit still knowing us and in the end she couldn't deal with that and here's the new one - apparently 2) She had a crush on this other guy "Squeak" who is there now for a long time and wanted to check it out before getting serious with anyone. Looks like she moves people into her place when she is still not serious. Good for her, good luck to him. I actually think he's pretty cool in the end and I hope it works out for him with or without her. Now I will expand. Trista is coming off the divorce. I will not say no to him being around because of the kids and of course because unlike Nookie's ex, he has committed no crimes against me and based on what I have heard I don't see him doing that. So it's much, much different, trust me.
I do feel like this girl is a great catch so far, obviously we have to check out the physical chemistry...but so driven that she doubles as a nurse and a teacher, has 2 degrees, loves sports, gambling, eating and drinking all the shit as me, is as raunchy and raw and as real as me....Like I said the kids are not in the cards this weekend. It's all about me and Trista getting to know eachother starting with a bottle of KJ on her balcony. Then, we see it where it goes.
She could just be a great one that needs to be taken care of, and you know what? Maybe i'm the same. She keeps saying I am and that I need someone who finally appreciates me, someone like her. She might be right.
She asked me not to break her heart and I asked her the same.
Time will tell and as always I appreciate your insight.