]Well for people with true "callings" that's a different thing altogether. I think there's a legitimate (albeit small) segment of society that fits under this umbrella. But I also think the vast majority are like me. The problem may lie in people pushing EVERYONE to chase dreams. It becomes an ingrained assumption that this is what everyone is supposed to do or you are wasting your life.[/B]
Well, maybe I am wasting something but it doesn't seem that way to me. I have a very cynical sort of idea about human existence in the first place. I don't think we all really matter that much in the grand scheme of things. We spend 50-100 years here and then .... who knows. I'm more concerned with just being satisfied with whatever I have to occupy my time at a particular moment. If I get bored, I move onto something else. (come to think of it, gambling was one of these things....cocaine was one of these things too, but I digress). I don't feel any compunction to chase a dream or leave my mark on the world or anything like that. I'm perfectly content to be one of the 99% of humans in the history of our race that will die completely unimportant to all but those who loved and were loved by them.