Teamer, I am up every morning at 6am. I may not have a 9 to 5 job but if you think writing doesn't take up a large part of the day, you are mistaken. I don't write short stories..lol. I am working on a novel. As far as a reason why a girl may like me, I am a pretty fun and humorous guy to be around. Granted, I may look crappy in Skype, but I don't consider myself that bad looking of a guy. I am not overweight, have a full head of hair, and I look younger than my age. Thank you for the pep talk pal..lol.