CaliGirlNY
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I don't think I can be friends with her anymore.
1) she makes approx 70k. her dad pays every single expense of hers (rent, car, bills, everything). She goes to the mall basically every single day and buys hundreds of dollars of clothes, shoes, random stuff she doesn't need. she will come hom and shove the bags in her closet to hid what she's bought so she won't feel guilty, then she goes back and gets one thing out at a time as the days go by. She spent $750 on the ugliest purple leopard print car coat. I told her it look like she skinned a muppet. Anyway, so she spends $$$ like its her job, and then shows off everything she buys. I told her last night that I was excited because I got 7 things for under $100 at H&M and he response was "ew why would you shop there?" and I go "because It's what I can afford Julie". ANd she just didn't comprehend. So 2 weeks ago she called me crying b/c she didn't have money for rent and begging me for $200. I said "Did you go to the mall today?" she says "....yeah" I said "How much did you spend?" she goes "uhm $500" and I said "then take back your clothes you bought, you don't need them, and there is your $200 plus an extra $300." and she didn't comprehend the logic, she just justified how she needed the snake skin boots and $200 jeans. And i thought she told me her dad pays her rent. Fast forward to day before last and she texted me asking to borrow $500 b/c she's broke. I responded with "Julie, I don't have that kind of $. I make 38k a year and pay all my own bills. Every penny is pinched. stop shopping and start saving."
2.) she's the BIGGEST slut ever. And not in a good or fun way. She sleeps with approx. 3-4 new guys each week, and brags about it obnoxiously, plus she is seeing 2 married men, and a bunch of other guys who are repeats. This weekend she fucked 5 different guys. I asked her last night at dinner how many people she's fucked and she proudly announced loudly so everyone around us could hear "Oh i've fucked about 250 men". Then we were the last people at the bar, and the bartenders and we were chatting, nice guys, both married, not attractive, just nice, and they comp'd our drinks b/c we're nice and whatever. Anyway I honestly cannot remember how this happened, but she decided she was going to flash the bartenders for free drinks and i say "Julie the drinks are already free". and she chooses to ignore me, and climbs up on to the bar (let me tell you this is a really nice fancy steakhouse, i don't think anyone has ever gotten up on the bar before there) and she lifts her top and dances around and flashes her tits to the bartenders who were like "omg this girl is stupid" and i was mortified and told her to get down, and i apologized to the bartender, then Julie yelled no and pulled down her pants to show them her ass. And the older bartender says "please stop" and i go "omg i'm leaving" and she gets all sad like she doesnt understand what she did wrong. we went back to her place afterword b/c i had left my coat in her living room and i didn't bring it up, but it was awkward. oh and she WAS SOBER. so was I, unfortunately.
3) She has a terrible drug addiction and calls me a few times each week for drugs. I go weeks with out doing stuff, and she knows that, so she has this theory that since I just have stuff in my apt that i'm not doing, I should give it to her to do b/c it's going to waste. I'm like... Julie... it's not like bananas and it goes bad, it lasts basically forever until I want it. i'm not going to just give u my stuff. She's always taking pills. She is a nurse and she steals all the time from the hospital.
4) She always asks me if I want to lay in bed with her and watch porn and masturbate together. she is 100% serious and has asked me like 20 times and I always say no i'd feel awkward (no shit!!!!) and she doesn't understand why
5) she is pressing me to have a 3-some with her and this german dude she's boning. I have nothing against 3-somes. but I don't want to have one with her, b/c i'm so so so so not attracted to her. and two, she hasn't been tested in over a year, and has fucked like 50 dudes in this year. no way i'm going near that vag.
6) she gets angry at me a lot when I don't want to, or can't hang out. If I have plans, and she wants to hang out, so I say no b/c i have other plans, she gets really really mad at me. and tries to guilt me into hanging out with her and i'm like "Julie i'm with chris, goodbye" or whatever and she just doesn't get that I have more friends other than her. Tonight she was trying to get me to come over and have a 3 some, and i said 1) no to the 3some and 2) i'm having an "in" night and getting out all my fall clothes and cleaning out my closets. ad she got really mad at me for not wanting to hang out. I just saw her last night!!
7) she lies. a lot. and I catch her in lies, a lot, like about how her apartment was broken into and her panty drawer was open and there was porn on her computer like a peeping tom... whatever, she said she called the cops and that her neighbor (one of my dearest friends) Rick came over when the cops came. So I mentioned it to rick, just in conversation and rick was like "I have no idea what you are talking about." and turns out this huge story she told me is totally fake.
8) she tried to con me out of $450. We went to Atlantic City for her 30th bday in July, she told me she needed $450 from me to put in for the room (there were 4 of us in 1 room) for 2 nights. I said that i only had $400 to spend the whole weekend (i don't gamble) so I could only afford one night. She says ok, her dad bought the room so I can give her cash and she'll give it to her dad. so i wait 2 days before we go and texted her "hey what is ur dads name, i'm going to write him a check for the room" and within 5 seconds she goes "oh i just asked my dad and he said no worries"..... she was at work at the time... i know she didn't ask her dad. in fact I KNOW her dad wasn't even expecting me to pay b/c over the weekend I mentioned it to her sister and her sister was like "what are you talking about? this is julie's bday gift, he wouldn't have taken your money" so what that means is that as Julie was going to pocket the cash, and as soon as i said I was going to write a check to her dad she back pedaled b/c she knew she couldn't pocket a check made out to her dad.
so why am i still friends with her?
1) she makes approx 70k. her dad pays every single expense of hers (rent, car, bills, everything). She goes to the mall basically every single day and buys hundreds of dollars of clothes, shoes, random stuff she doesn't need. she will come hom and shove the bags in her closet to hid what she's bought so she won't feel guilty, then she goes back and gets one thing out at a time as the days go by. She spent $750 on the ugliest purple leopard print car coat. I told her it look like she skinned a muppet. Anyway, so she spends $$$ like its her job, and then shows off everything she buys. I told her last night that I was excited because I got 7 things for under $100 at H&M and he response was "ew why would you shop there?" and I go "because It's what I can afford Julie". ANd she just didn't comprehend. So 2 weeks ago she called me crying b/c she didn't have money for rent and begging me for $200. I said "Did you go to the mall today?" she says "....yeah" I said "How much did you spend?" she goes "uhm $500" and I said "then take back your clothes you bought, you don't need them, and there is your $200 plus an extra $300." and she didn't comprehend the logic, she just justified how she needed the snake skin boots and $200 jeans. And i thought she told me her dad pays her rent. Fast forward to day before last and she texted me asking to borrow $500 b/c she's broke. I responded with "Julie, I don't have that kind of $. I make 38k a year and pay all my own bills. Every penny is pinched. stop shopping and start saving."
2.) she's the BIGGEST slut ever. And not in a good or fun way. She sleeps with approx. 3-4 new guys each week, and brags about it obnoxiously, plus she is seeing 2 married men, and a bunch of other guys who are repeats. This weekend she fucked 5 different guys. I asked her last night at dinner how many people she's fucked and she proudly announced loudly so everyone around us could hear "Oh i've fucked about 250 men". Then we were the last people at the bar, and the bartenders and we were chatting, nice guys, both married, not attractive, just nice, and they comp'd our drinks b/c we're nice and whatever. Anyway I honestly cannot remember how this happened, but she decided she was going to flash the bartenders for free drinks and i say "Julie the drinks are already free". and she chooses to ignore me, and climbs up on to the bar (let me tell you this is a really nice fancy steakhouse, i don't think anyone has ever gotten up on the bar before there) and she lifts her top and dances around and flashes her tits to the bartenders who were like "omg this girl is stupid" and i was mortified and told her to get down, and i apologized to the bartender, then Julie yelled no and pulled down her pants to show them her ass. And the older bartender says "please stop" and i go "omg i'm leaving" and she gets all sad like she doesnt understand what she did wrong. we went back to her place afterword b/c i had left my coat in her living room and i didn't bring it up, but it was awkward. oh and she WAS SOBER. so was I, unfortunately.
3) She has a terrible drug addiction and calls me a few times each week for drugs. I go weeks with out doing stuff, and she knows that, so she has this theory that since I just have stuff in my apt that i'm not doing, I should give it to her to do b/c it's going to waste. I'm like... Julie... it's not like bananas and it goes bad, it lasts basically forever until I want it. i'm not going to just give u my stuff. She's always taking pills. She is a nurse and she steals all the time from the hospital.
4) She always asks me if I want to lay in bed with her and watch porn and masturbate together. she is 100% serious and has asked me like 20 times and I always say no i'd feel awkward (no shit!!!!) and she doesn't understand why
5) she is pressing me to have a 3-some with her and this german dude she's boning. I have nothing against 3-somes. but I don't want to have one with her, b/c i'm so so so so not attracted to her. and two, she hasn't been tested in over a year, and has fucked like 50 dudes in this year. no way i'm going near that vag.
6) she gets angry at me a lot when I don't want to, or can't hang out. If I have plans, and she wants to hang out, so I say no b/c i have other plans, she gets really really mad at me. and tries to guilt me into hanging out with her and i'm like "Julie i'm with chris, goodbye" or whatever and she just doesn't get that I have more friends other than her. Tonight she was trying to get me to come over and have a 3 some, and i said 1) no to the 3some and 2) i'm having an "in" night and getting out all my fall clothes and cleaning out my closets. ad she got really mad at me for not wanting to hang out. I just saw her last night!!
7) she lies. a lot. and I catch her in lies, a lot, like about how her apartment was broken into and her panty drawer was open and there was porn on her computer like a peeping tom... whatever, she said she called the cops and that her neighbor (one of my dearest friends) Rick came over when the cops came. So I mentioned it to rick, just in conversation and rick was like "I have no idea what you are talking about." and turns out this huge story she told me is totally fake.
8) she tried to con me out of $450. We went to Atlantic City for her 30th bday in July, she told me she needed $450 from me to put in for the room (there were 4 of us in 1 room) for 2 nights. I said that i only had $400 to spend the whole weekend (i don't gamble) so I could only afford one night. She says ok, her dad bought the room so I can give her cash and she'll give it to her dad. so i wait 2 days before we go and texted her "hey what is ur dads name, i'm going to write him a check for the room" and within 5 seconds she goes "oh i just asked my dad and he said no worries"..... she was at work at the time... i know she didn't ask her dad. in fact I KNOW her dad wasn't even expecting me to pay b/c over the weekend I mentioned it to her sister and her sister was like "what are you talking about? this is julie's bday gift, he wouldn't have taken your money" so what that means is that as Julie was going to pocket the cash, and as soon as i said I was going to write a check to her dad she back pedaled b/c she knew she couldn't pocket a check made out to her dad.
so why am i still friends with her?
