Casp is thinking that because he now has a cute girlfriend and lifts weights that no one else does the same, and that because he is now happy his debts should be forgiven.
The fact of the matter is she tremendously improves his debt to income ratio, the technical one which includes tips, so he is now more obligated to man up than ever.
But don't tell him I said that - I wouldn't want to have a red solo cup from a dive bar thrown at me by a make pretend meathead and a real life thief.
That'd be so terrible.
I remember when a very good older volleyball player said to me at one time when I was slacking off in college as I was having a blast getting drunk with them, playing good ball and talking to girls - "you don't deserve to be happy" and all the older coolios laughed. It was very, very well timed and my balloon burst like Plom's gut will within 4 or so years by "his" own gluttony and lack of movement/effort. I did deserve it too because at that time I was pissing away my parent's hard earned tuition money, and those older coolios cared about them. That worked out for me as I got good at sales.
Anyway the point is - until Casp pays others the respect they do deserve, he simply doesn't deserve to be happy.
I wonder is Casp, deep inside, still thinks ripping off posters is funny.
I'd love to chill with him and really get an answer on that.
I know good BSers -
Casp isn't one of them.
I have a few single good looking very cool friends in NYC looking for a stand up guy to settle down with, not some hack whose end game is ripping off yet another person/female. They get pretty bored and like to drink, and sports.
Hmmm.