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wal66
Superficial by it's very nature is judging someone based on their apperance. Without getting to know someone you have no idea if their condition is mental, physical or otherwise. Maybe the person is lacking motivation or maybe the person actually has health issues. Maybe it's a combination of both. People with good genetics just assume that every fat person chooses to be such. It's so because you say it's so.
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By "people" are you inferring I have good genetics?

If their condition is mental, would it be superficial to not want to get involved with someone that has a mental "problem" or block of some sort.

If their condition is physical/health issue, is it superficial not to want to get involved with someone with a health issue? I'm assuming physical/health issue is the same thing, correct me if I'm wrong.

If the person is lacking motivation, is it superficial to not to want to be in a relationship with an unmotivated person?
 
For the record I never called Mrs. X a militant lesbian. I said my first impression of her after reading some of her post made me THINK of her as a militant leasbian. There is a significant distinction.

Matty, either way I think I may now be on a list. Not a good list either.
 
I do agree with Wally in some cases that there are some people that have medical issues that cause them to gain weight.

On the other hand, it can be environmental. I grew up in the "clean plate" club. Food was always available and I was an incredibly underactive person. It took a lot of work to undo YEARS of damage. I had to relearn how to eat and how to be active (apparently I didn't figure it out too well due to the latest injury). Now that I'm 80 pounds lighter, I'm the biggest proponent of a healthy lifestyle, including eating healthy and being active. It would be so much easier for me to slip into the mode that I was in, but I'm neurotic enough not to.
 
Some people are predisposed to being hefty, but I'd have to agree with Mrs. X for the most part. I'd say the majority of people with extra weight don't pay too much attention to their diets or exercise regularly. Is judging people based on that superficial? I'm not sure. Perhaps, people are looking for certain lifestyle choices in their partners. If they lead an active life, they might want their partners to do the same. Then again, maybe it comes down to simple vanity in the form of social conditioning. I'd think it's probably a combination of both reasons for many who do such a thing.
 
Matty, I agree Mrs. X deserved a full point for her first post but come on guy, I must have earned at least half a point for continuing the debate with her and not calling her some derogatory name or even cussing at her.
 
wal66
Mrs. X, I read about the hot springs, I get it, you don't care for fat people. It's ok I don't like us either. I wouldn't do me, hell I don't even like the lights on when I shower.
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Truthfully, you're probably right. I am prejudiced. I come from a long line of big, fat people and I don't like it one bit. I see the bad habits and the excuses and it alternately makes me mad and sad. It's unfortunate that when you have a drug/drinking problem you have a "disease" but if you ease your pain with food it's looked down upon or made fun of. But the reasons a healthy person wouldn't want to get involved with a person that has a drinking/drug problem should be the same reasons for not getting involved with someone who uses food in an out of control manner.

Yes, you really can't tell the whole story by looking at someone. But I think this description fits the majority of cases, feel free to call me out if you think I'm wrong.
 
I don't think you are wrong. Society sees it exactly as you do so you are actually in the majority. Hell I kind of see it the way you do. I have actual genetic/health issues that are related to my weight but I also don't help things with my diet. I don't eat a lot but I also don't eat healthy either. When I was at my heaviest I was extreemely active. I coached year round and I actually was on the field practicing with the players. I was always on the go. It made no difference though I still always gained weight.

Stopping the story here cause Matty has stopped reading.
 
Teela
Hell no. I was very unfortunate looking.
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I dunno about being unfortunate looking, but losing 80 pounds probably made you totally unrecognizable to people who hadn't witnessed your gradual loss. (Close to 2 bills, really?)

I bet you still managed to be the runner-up in Miss Upstate NY. :grin:
 
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