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Matty, I think that when some people get married they truly believe at the time that they want to be with their partner forever. They don't buy into the science of it all and don't know what they're up against.
 
Daft
Matty, I think that when some people get married they truly believe at the time that they want to be with their partner forever. They don't buy into the science of it all and don't know what they're up against.
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Again, we're programmed to do that. Being in love is your brain forcing you to focus on that one woman for a bit. Small window of opportunity (6 months-1 year?) for a woman to get the ring and the vows and half the house.

Our own brains fuck us over Daffypoo. It's a fokken tragedy.
 
Daft
Matty, I think that when some people get married they truly believe at the time that they want to be with their partner forever. They don't buy into the science of it all and don't know what they're up against.
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No doubt....

good intentions bad chemistry and hormones

by and large many get married because they feel "in love" when that fades and they don't feel as happy as they feel they should.... the look elsewhere

then they give themselves permission to divorce....... I mean 50% of other people do it too right?

very few stay together for the kids anymore.....

hell times have changed "the kids" used to mean like 3-8 kids in N.America. now it means like 1-3 mostly

I stick by my physio and evolutionary psych claims...

but cultural norms should have lent a helping hand around here lately in the "Infidelity" happenings
 
Since this got turned into religion, let's go there.

Do you not think that people can't have a moral compass even without a religious agenda?

I don't argue the Bible is fiction (although I don't fault people for believing in it because we all need something to believe in) but you have to admit there are certain things (NOT ALL) in there that give a foundation for being a decent person.

Even if you take that out though I think people are capable of being moral and decent even without religion guiding them. Some people just have a sense of right and wrong. Maybe all the rights and wrong don't match someone else's but it doesn't make then a religious freak for having some sort of moral base.

Most of you would agree that killing someone without cause is wrong right? Does that make you religious? Oh wait, I went extreme and it will be pointed out so let's say stealing. The majority of you feel that stealing is wrong, does that make you religious?

There is a serious distain for religion here but to try and sway every moral type issue into being a religious one is silly. You guys for the most part are too intelligent to take such a copout approach to a debate.
 
Wal, if god didn't want us to cheat he would have made it impossible for a man to get an erection with someone other than his wife.

I think god has made it quite clear that there is no such thing as cheating.

Intercourse = Intercourse, its as simple as that.

Variety in pusssaay is what makes life worth living for most men. Common.
 
Oksana
like I just did? :lmao:

I'll have you know Archie? BigAl? that I am using highly scientific data to support my claim. :shitjustgotreal:
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word.

thank you for getting my somtimes way to subtle insidious undertones


yeah i'm a church secretary that loves my Jesus and my gay friends (even roomate)

I hate 99% of Christians too though

Oxy, don't piss me off today. not now
 
Yes Wakky I agree that a person can have a moral compass and it have nothing to do with religion.

But you made a sweeping statement with the 'we' and I was simply pointing out that your we doesn't quite extend as far as you might have thought.
 
Oksana
Yes Wakky I agree that a person can have a moral compass and it have nothing to do with religion.

But you made a sweeping statement with the 'we' and I was simply pointing out that your we doesn't quite extend as far as you might have thought.
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I get it you love Matty TP pic but now your picking apart my post like Matty is going to far.

Let a guy make a mistake in his wording, ask him about it and then at least listen to the explination.
 
wal66
Fidelity

I have this friend, well we used to be close friends but now we are more or less just friends but anyways he has been married 3 times.

The first wife, they were both really too young probably but she was a really nice girl. He cheated on her and eventually they split.

The 2nd wife was a sweet girl but she had no will of her own. She would speak when he spoke to her, wait on him hand and foot and essentially allow herself to be his slave not partner. He cheated on her throughout the marriage and eventually she stepped out on him and he left her.

The 3rd wife was more independent but still more submissive than assertive, he cheated on her as well and they eventually split as well.

This guy is of the belief that it is man’s nature to cheat. That a man can’t be beholden to just one woman. As idiotic as that sounds to me he is not alone in his belief.

So why do we justify or make excuses for men cheating? Why do we accept that, that’s just how men are wired but if a woman does the same thing she is a slut?

If you have ever cheated on a mate and later learned she cheated on you how would you handle it? If you live by the code of there being a double standard what is the reasoning behind it?
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Wally I object to this use of the word YOU. that I bolded in your OP

I mean I think I object. when you say "you" do you mean "me" or like........ you as in "you and all your buddies and family"

because if a chick cheated on me. or even looked at another man below his clavicle and above his knee...... "we" as in me and my 25 toughest brothers and friends would insert a fucking portible adjustable basketball rim pipe in each of her holes and run some crazy lay layup/slam dunk drills of those muthas....


that's what "WE" would do....

but if you are implying that I would handlie it alone...... I'm very offended
 
Oksana
I'm not picking apart anything.

I am just seriously surprised at your belief that society for the most part feels this way.
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Tell ya what Oxy. I'll write my post and forward them to you and Matty to proof first.

I use we and I'm accusing the majority. I use they and I am being judgmental because it's obvious that I'm excluding myself. I use them and I'm probably racist.

Stop reading threads that offer opinions or topics for discussion as if I am speaking directly to the individual reading it. I speak in general terms unless I specifically call someone out.

Now, Oxy, I am in a majority of male dominated environments at work and again at the golf course. In those settings which I am most commonly associated with there is a predominate agreement amongst the men there that a guy stepping out is accepted but the wives better not ever do it. Is it that way everywhere, I don't know, hence the question being asked.
 
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